The fedora is a lady's hat. I also own trilbies, antique lady's hats, and soft caps, and one very heavy and expensive Blonde Swan hat.
But APPARENTLY, the 'fedora' is now associated with overweight white males in trenchcoats, to the point where hats in general are tainted.
What the fuck, really. Fuck you internet, I'll wear hats if I want. Cringe away.